[sweetiepie2121]

I dont mean to go on but my major fear is death im worried about dying from illnesses. when i die im wondering is it all over in 1 second or do I sufficate to death.This is ruling my life i hate it i get scared every day now. I dont know who to turn to who understands.

[amanda]

Hi - would it help you to talk to a pastor/priest/vicar, do you think? I reckon very many people are frightened of dying because we don`t understand what will happen.
Sorry I can`t give you any answers.

A

[Terry Sains]

I am sorry what brings you here, but glad you came.
Did you notice the same thread from Sarahsazzle? Below yours.
100 replies, I was wondering if reading this thread it might make you feel a bit better, knowing you are not alone in this predicament. I wish you well. Terry.

[Chris V]

People who don't have anxiety generally feel safe & comfortable around people they know, & often want to make friends with people they don't know. They feel a part of society. Humans mostly work together (OK, so there are wars & genocides but the world population keeps growing).

The fear of death makes us very lonely. There could be a load of friendly and nice people on a plane together. But if the plane falters and it's definite that it's going to crash and everyone will die, then literally everyone will feel absolutely alone. That's why everyone will scream and panic. I very much doubt someone will be holding someone's hand in the seat next to them, comforting them saying 'You're going to die, but it's going to be OK, nothing to worry about'.

You really have to work it out for yourself how to feel comforted by the after-life. Bizarrely enough, I think that anyone who's developed and overcome anxiety will be the person who doesn't scream and panic when the plane is about to crash & they're about to die.

[race-demon]

i beleive (to my misfortune) that after you die thats it gone

the process for example a gun shot wound is youd get weak maybe cold and tired and slowly fall asleep as everythign goes darker and darker then whe it goes all black (the point we think fo as sleep) you no longer exist in thought, memory or anythign, the only proof you did exist is still in this dimension.....you know wat i mean

thats terrifying for me....

but some people beleive in spirits, some in reincarnation, some in heaven, some in nothing, whos to say all cant be right?, beleive in nothing and you become nothing, beleive in reincarnation you get reincarnated, beleive in spirits you become a spirit beleive in heaven etc and off you go, though
my problem with reincarnatio is, if you cant remember your last life, how can you expect to have another 1, for if you couldnt remember it, thats lke never having it..which is like not going to ave it, sorry im jabbering on

but if you ot a question feel free to pm me or reply or summin i got laods of theorys, all very logical and most making me feel terrible, got a specific q? im sure i could coem up with a good precise answer

[Chris V]

There isn't nothing after you die. There is an afterlife. It's been proven. Don't worry about that. It's just wondering what the afterlife is!!