Sucidal_DarkFairy
12-06-07, 02:32 PM
About 5 or 6 years ago my parents split up and i had to grow up really quickly to look after my little sisters and didn't have time to actually get upset about it. it got bottled up for years then i had a breakdown and went through a phase of self harming over anything and everything. I got better and moved on with my life and two years ago my dad re-married and my mum had a baby with her new partner.
last year i met my current boyfriend and i haven't been this happy in a long time, but now my dad's marriage is falling apart and i'm begging to slip back into my old routines. the main reason for my mum leaving was because my dad was never home and always at the pub, now my step mum is basically thinking o leaving for the same reason. i didn't get along with my dad for a while afterwards and we never spoke and he thought that i wanted to go and live wth my mum because of it and now it's gone back to that.
i avoid him as much as possible because i can't stand being around him, and i know that when he's been at the pub it's even worse because he thinks he's hilarious and always has digs at everyone and then when people retaliate he gets angry and begins to shout. a lot of the time i just leave the room and on the odd occasion the house. i don't know what to do because it's ruining my relationship with my boyfriend and i just feel like giving up all over again. i can't talk to y dad about it because i just feel like he doesn't listen and thinks it's just a "phase".
please help all advice would be very much appreciated xxxx
last year i met my current boyfriend and i haven't been this happy in a long time, but now my dad's marriage is falling apart and i'm begging to slip back into my old routines. the main reason for my mum leaving was because my dad was never home and always at the pub, now my step mum is basically thinking o leaving for the same reason. i didn't get along with my dad for a while afterwards and we never spoke and he thought that i wanted to go and live wth my mum because of it and now it's gone back to that.
i avoid him as much as possible because i can't stand being around him, and i know that when he's been at the pub it's even worse because he thinks he's hilarious and always has digs at everyone and then when people retaliate he gets angry and begins to shout. a lot of the time i just leave the room and on the odd occasion the house. i don't know what to do because it's ruining my relationship with my boyfriend and i just feel like giving up all over again. i can't talk to y dad about it because i just feel like he doesn't listen and thinks it's just a "phase".
please help all advice would be very much appreciated xxxx
